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my name's rebecca. i doubt you're even mildly interested in the irrelevant aspects of my life, so i'll get to the point. i'm not a professional psychologist nor do i pretend to be, yet i'll try to give you advice based on the common sense that, unlike many others on here, i own ;]
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Well lately, my bast friend j and my other best friend b have been like ganging up on me...like b will say...oh im j's best friend now she likes me better... and its always about j! She will say she hates me and not even say that she was kidding! My friend b has also been losing wieght...and im happy for her but she talks about it all the time...it doesnt help when j says oh what is your size, whe'll compare! They try to make themselves feel better about themselves! And j has been my best friend since the 1st grade! Plz help!
God Bless,
breezy
B doesn't sound like a good friend at all. She might be going through a phase; feeling stressed because of loosing weight, or trying to make herself feel better about herself. I'd definitely give her some time to cool off. Don't let her just treat you like that and think that you can still be best friends like nothing happened.. J doesn't seem to be doing anything wrong, just encouraging B to stick with her weight loss plan.
So definitely leave B alone for a while. If it continues, you can't call her your best friend.
(Rating: 5) thank you...ive been told that...its great advice...thank you