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Best Friend Is Bieng MEAN!!
Well lately, my bast friend j and my other best friend b have been like ganging up on me...like b will say...oh im j's best friend now she likes me better... and its always about j! She will say she hates me and not even say that she was kidding! My friend b has also been losing wieght...and im happy for her but she talks about it all the time...it doesnt help when j says oh what is your size, whe'll compare! They try to make themselves feel better about themselves! And j has been my best friend since the 1st grade! Plz help!
God Bless,
breezy
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sounds like their both being bioches...i say forget them and go find new friends..
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B doesn't sound like a good friend at all. She might be going through a phase; feeling stressed because of loosing weight, or trying to make herself feel better about herself. I'd definitely give her some time to cool off. Don't let her just treat you like that and think that you can still be best friends like nothing happened.. J doesn't seem to be doing anything wrong, just encouraging B to stick with her weight loss plan.
So definitely leave B alone for a while. If it continues, you can't call her your best friend.
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i think that your friends are just a little insecure right now. especially b who is trying to lose weight. she just wants to compare sizes so that if she is "thinner" she can somehow say that she is "better" than you.
if i were you i would stop hanging out with them as much and give them their space. or you could try having a serious talk with both of them about how they are hurting you and how you don't want to lose them as friends because you've been friends so long.
i hope everything goes ok :]
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i know, you dont wanna hear this but she's just kinda moving out of the friendship. its happened to me with friends for a long time, i know it hurts. but it happenes to the best of friends. im really sorry.
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