BIOGRAPHY:
My name is Carrie, and I just recently turned 25. I've been told that I give excellent advice, so I created this column last year with the intention of helping as many people as possible. Although I do believe I succeeded, I ultimately turned my back on this column when I discovered just how cruel and thankless some people can be. Almost one year later a lot has changed. I've gained a whole new perspective on life and the world around me. I'm much more positive, sympathetic, and willing to listen when people truly need help. So now I've decided to come back and focus my attention on the individuals who are truly in need of advice.
ADVICE:
I'm very genuine when it comes to giving advice. I try to be sympathetic to the person asking the question, but I don't ever sugar coat things. I've learned quickly that many people who ask for help don't really want advice - they want someone who will say what they want to hear. Sorry, but you're not going to get that with me. I'm not here to make friends (if a friendship happens though, yay for me!). You'll always get the truth from me whether you like it or not. While the truth may sting just a bit to begin with, it will absolutely set you free in the long run. If you want to be lied to, please seek advice from somebody else.
CONTACT INFO:
If you like my advice and have additional questions for me, click on the link right underneath this profile that says "Ask Me A Question." If you leave your follow-up question for me in my feedback, I have no way of replying to it. Please use the link. Also, I have an e-mail address where people can get in touch with me if they need to. Feel free to use it.
IMPORTANT:
This may be a hobby in some people's eyes, but I don't like it when people waste my time regardless of whatever it is I'm doing, which in this case, is providing a free service out of the kindness of my heart. So please don't ask me stupid questions, and please make an effort to type sensibly so that I can read and understand your question. I know there are a lot of young people on this site, but that's no excuse to type like you're brain dead. Proper grammar, spelling, and punctuation is highly appreciated with me. The more intelligent your question is, the more intelligent of a response you'll get from me.
ABOUT ME:
Here are some facts about me. I like pop music (especially Madonna). I like horror movies (especially Scream). I like to chat (on MSN). I love to write (poetry, screenplays, short stories). I love shopping (Best Buy). I'm a gamer (I'm better than a guy - Xbox 360 all the way). I have a MySpace (Click "Ask Carrie" for the link). I love my doggies (I have 2). I'm not a bitch (...well, sometimes). I love to laugh (and sometimes I pee a little when I do). It happens.
Website: Ask Carrie
E-mail: soundslikepink@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: South Carolina
Occupation: What's that?
Age: 25
Member Since: June 10, 2007
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Last Update: September 13, 2008
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Before you read this, you must know I AM NOT A LESBIAN (no matter what it says).
So... i like this guy called Marcus. Me and my best mate Beth we were messing around one day calling each other lesbians. Some people over-heard it and they got from it that i'm a lesbian. So the joke went on and on. My mate Mat called me a lesbian right in front of Marcus, then he looked at me and just walked off. I said to Mat not to call me a lesbian any more because you said it in front of the guy i like and he took it seriously. He said sorry, blah blah blah.
Because i'm really close to all my friends and i'm allways hugging them and that. Chris came up to me and called me a lesbian and i said shut the fuck up, i've had enough from everyone else about that i am NOT a fucking lesbian. Then, my other 'so-called mate', Charlie said to Chris yeah she is ain't she. And i said your the fucking lesbian.
But that's something else...
I've talked to Marcus and said i'm not a lesbian. But, what can i do?!? Because i can't ask him out because i know this will still carry on. Beth says i should ask him out because what went on won't effect his answer, but i'm not sure.
Thanks xxxx (link)
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I agree with Beth - ask him out anyway. If he's worth your time, he won't be affected by these silly rumors and accusations. You seem like a smart, open minded girl, so if he he turns out to be a judgmental jerk, you can do better anyway. Also, stop protesting that you're not a lesbian. You're only drawing attention to the rumor, and constant protesting always makes you look guilty. Just relax and shrug it off. It started off as a joke, so keep it a joke. Don't turn it into a big deal now. Just continue to be the laid back girl that you are and everything will sort itself out in time.
Let me know if this advice is helpful and please keep me informed with how things work out for you. :)
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