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Hiii, I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about 3 months, and he's a year older then me, and is a Freshman, so we don't go to the same school. so, i only see him once a week. lately, things have felt weird between us, and i don't really like to talk on the phone to him, and i really like him a lot still, i just know i do. but, i like this one boy thats in my grade. and we flirt a LOT. i feel like i'm hurting my boyfriend, even though NO ONE knows, but me. i don't wanna break up with my boyfriend, but i don't wanna hurt anyone. i don't know what to doo. help?
It sounds like you feel like you're neglecting your boyfriend because you can't see him everyday yet you're constantly flirting with this other guy. You probably just feel guilty. Flirting with someone else while you're in a relationship isn't cheating but sometimes it can feel like it is. So call your boyfriend more even if you don't like talking on the phone that much, and try to adjust your schedule to spend more time with him.
- _ - Jasmine _ - _
(Rating: 5) yeah, i see. i guess i do feel really guilty, cause this guy is one of my best friends, and he's in my grade, and is in all my classes, so it's hard like not too. and it;s hard to hang out with my boyfriend a lot, cause he has baseball everyday after school. so he doesn't get home til 7:30 then he has homework, so. hmm, i don't really know. it's just kinda awkward sometimes, but then sometimes it's fine.