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Hey. Its Ashleigh. Hm, I finally decided to change this thing.

I have an amazing fiance, and I love him with all my heart.

We have a 7 year age gap, but that doesn't bother us. He is 22 if you are wondering.

We have been together for 3 years! Which amazes us both. We got engaged on February 2, 2007. & we found out we were pregnant in around May. I'm due in January 2008.

This is my second column on here, my first one being "mayonnaise".

I have a wonderful twin sister, Alexandra. She has a column, but hardly ever uses it.

I love piercings, and I currently have a little over 20. I also have two tattoos. Before you ask my brothers own a tattoo shop which is how I got my tattoos.

I'm Bipolar, and ADHD. I also am OCD. I have Tourettes. I've also had problems with Anorexia and Bulimia. I've been in rehab twice for my eating disorders. And I also had a PEG feeding tube in my stomach for a while.

I live in Lizard Lick, North Carolina.

If you are wondering where that is, its about 15 minutes away from Raleigh.

My fiance and I are attempting to buy a house in Raleigh. Getting out of this town is a huge priority.

I do have my permit, so I can drive. :]

My fiance recently bought me a car that isn't a piece like my 280z was.

I now have a 2007 Honda Civic! :]

I'm home schooled, and I'm in the 11th grade.

And that's about all you need to know about me.

I don't give amazing advice, and I admit it sucks sometimes. I try to give advice based on my opinion, because I don't give a fuck what you think about my answer. Feedback is a must. :]

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hii
i really want to get my nose piersed, if i do i found out that my moms docters does piersing and i would feel so much better knowing that the docters is clean safe and they know what they are doing.
i heard that if your nose piersing (sp sorry) gets infected it can lead to brain damage.
cause the same blood vessels in your nose are shared by blood vessels going into your brain.

that worrys me cause everyones bodys handel it diffrently. im 13 is this too young of a age heath wise??

i mean i wanna know how rare the brane damage thing is cause a piersing isnt worth the risk.

also im trying to convince my mum to get it done shes still iffy. heres what i got so far:
-personal fason statement
-form of bodyart
-chance to establish your individulaty
-relighous cultures (india) its a symbol of breauty

thanx so much!!

Hi.

Well the first step is to learn to actually spell "piercing"

Now, I'm a little offended by you saying that you know a doctor is more clean, safe, and know what they are doing. Doctors, study medicine. Body Piercers, study piercing. Now, who knows more, doctor or piercer. A body piercer actually has to go to school to learn to pierce, and most shops are very clean and steryle. So, Please, Don't put a bad image on tattoo/piercing shops.

You asked if your body can handle it, that is totally up to you and how you feel about it. If you are nervous/hesitant, I don't suggest getting it. Health wise, it all depends on how you take care of your piercing.

You can not get brain (you need to learn to spell that also) damage from a nose piercing.

Personally, I don't think that you are mature enough to get a piercing, just because you are asking strangers how to convince your mother, and you can't really spell it worth a crap, and you obviously have done no research.

You should research it, learn a little about it.

However, I have over 20 piercings and help out at a piercing shop, and if you need to know anything, feel free to ask me.

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(Rating: 5) sorry i dont know how to spell very well but that doesnt mean in immature and sorry for all the spelling errors in this feedback,

i take care of piercings very well i got 5 piercings in my ears all went successfuly
im not nurvous at all i was iffy when i read about the brain damage
i did more reasearch and saw that that wasnt ture and i looked up all the risks, how to take care of it, types of ways they pierce it etc.

i have nothing aggenst piercing places i just know my moms docter very well and he did go to scool and has a lisince and i have a bloodclotting disorder so he knows weather or not this would be safe.

may i ask you (im not sure weather or not you would know about this...) as i said earlier, i have a blood clotting disorder, nothing big i just have it very mild, how would this result of the piersing?? ( i couldnt find any info about that)

about convinceing my mother i had NO idea how to bring it up. i wanted to get it cause in india culture (i

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