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Hey. Its Ashleigh. Hm, I finally decided to change this thing.


I have an amazing fiance, and I love him with all my heart.


We have a 7 year age gap, but that doesn't bother us. He is 22 if you are wondering.


We have been together for 3 years! Which amazes us both. We got engaged on February 2, 2007. & we found out we were pregnant in around May. I'm due in January 2008.


This is my second column on here, my first one being "mayonnaise".


I have a wonderful twin sister, Alexandra. She has a column, but hardly ever uses it.


I love piercings, and I currently have a little over 20. I also have two tattoos. Before you ask my brothers own a tattoo shop which is how I got my tattoos.



I'm Bipolar, and ADHD. I also am OCD. I have Tourettes. I've also had problems with Anorexia and Bulimia. I've been in rehab twice for my eating disorders. And I also had a PEG feeding tube in my stomach for a while.


I live in Lizard Lick, North Carolina.


If you are wondering where that is, its about 15 minutes away from Raleigh.


My fiance and I are attempting to buy a house in Raleigh. Getting out of this town is a huge priority.


I do have my permit, so I can drive. :]


My fiance recently bought me a car that isn't a piece like my 280z was.


I now have a 2007 Honda Civic! :]


I'm home schooled, and I'm in the 11th grade.


And that's about all you need to know about me.


I don't give amazing advice, and I admit it sucks sometimes. I try to give advice based on my opinion, because I don't give a fuck what you think about my answer. Feedback is a must. :]

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ok. this is super duper embarassing.

i am 16, female. and i pee my pants when i laugh. like kinda bad. when i start laughing, i just lose control of my bladder. and then its soo hard trying to hide the (sometimes) huge wet spot on my pants. (i also wet the bed, but thats only once every 2-3 months so its not a huge problem)

i have tried using the bathroom like every five minutes: doesnt help AT ALL. i have tried thinking of something sad/not funny when i laugh: doesnt help. i have tried concentrating really hard on not peeing: doesnt help.

my social life has been affected by this: there is this girl i met at camp, and we became really good friends, but she lives like an hour away from me, but she has invited my to visit many times. i really want to, BUT SHE IS HILARIOUS!!!! ahhh!! (oh ya btw summer camp was hell for me: it was fun but also funny -> causes wet pants)

please help me. i am willing to do anything but get diapers (i wear tight jeans) and hang out with serious people. like i am actually a really humourous person myself, and it kills me to be scared to laugh.

Hi.

I'm not a doctor, so I can be wrong. But I think you have overactive bladder. There is a medicine that you can take to stop/help it.

You should try seeing a doctor, even though you don't want to because its so embarassing. But she/he is a doctor, and it doesn't bother them.

The other person had a good idea, Try wearing a pad. But than could get little uncomfortable after a while.

Seriously, talk to you mom and tell her you want to get a doctors appointment. Ask your doctor about overactive bladder and see what she/he can do about it.

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(Rating: 5) ya the pad will be extremely uncomfortable. thanks!

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