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Q: well basically the subject says it all. i'm 15 and in 9th grade and the guy i like is in 8th grade. but he has a girlfriend that is in 9th grade that goes to another school. i've never met his girlfriend, so i don't know how well their relationship is. but i REALLY like him, and it seems like he is flirting with me a lot. he is always IMing me, he says hi to me everytime we see each other in the hallway, he always bumps into me in the hall on purpose (but in a fun cute way), and he has a nickname for me. he is already a really friendly person, it just seems like i'm getting a little extra attention. anyway thats not the point. the point is he has a girlfriend but i like him. what can i do? should i try to flirt with him so maybe he will breakup with his girlfriend? or would that be mean and i should just back off?

oh and since he's in 8th grade i don't have any classes with him. what are some ways to talk more in or out of school without being obvious that i like him? we used to be in the play together but now the play is over and i don't get to hang out with him everyday after school for practice anymore.

sorry this is so long its just that i love your advice and i needed some help =]
Aww thank you so much :D

This happened to me so many times,for some reason i always go after the guys that are taken lol i know its not want you want to hear but i really dont think you shoudl pursue anything with him right now.Its never a good idea to mess with a relationship it leads to alot of drama and someone always ends up getting hurt.Right now just be friends with him.If you want to hang out ask him (but dont let it be just the two of you)let it be a group of friends go to the movies, play mini golf,etc just dont flirt with him or anything since hes still a taken guy.Just let whatever happens with you two happen.If they do end up breaking up then maybe you can go in for the kill ;] but in the meantime try to find another guy to crush on.

♥ danielle

thanks for answering so quickly!

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