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My two best friends just started going out. Me and the guy used to kind of flirt like crazy, and we would just be pervy around eachother, but we both new we were kidding. I dont think i ever even considered liking him. But we were really close, just like I was with the girl. I never really saw the relationship coming, and I'm so upset! Its hard to talk to the guy now, because i have to be careful about what i say. And Im jealous of the girl. I dont know why, because I dont think i like him. But I hate that theyre going out. I really loved him, just as a friend, but i really did. And now its too confusing.

You probably feel like now he has her, he won't need you, right? My good guy friend, when he has another girl I get jealous cause I dont want things to change, but I just usually overreact. If he is your friend, he shouldn't just do that to you, and if he does he is obsouvly not a good friend because he is puting relationship infront of friendships. If you think your really really good friends, try telling him. He might say that he though you were mad at him, or he might say "id never do that to you". You never know unless you talk to him. I hope this helped.



Kate

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(Rating: 5) thanks, it did help.
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