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long sorry=/ im just so confused.
16/f
I have 3 best friends. They are the main people i hang out with. I have lots of friends but never seem to see them outside of school. But anyway, heres the thing, one of them moved 3 years ago, and the other doesnt go to my school anymore but we see eachother sometimes. And then the last friend, We have been friends for about 2 years. But im wrried i dont wanna be friends anymore. She is always leaving me out of things for other people, one minute she will be fine the next she will be a bitch to me. We get in fights monthly. She is always treating me like crap and other people see it, i dont know how many times a day i get 'how do you deal with her''why are you still friends''shes horrible to you', but the thing is when she isnt like that we have such a good time together. Pluse she is all i have left. Past few years i have chaged alot and been threw alot and she was the ony one there for it. If i lost her noone would be there. What should i do? I cant stand how she treats me but when i dont talk to her i feel so alone, shes all i got and i cant imagine not being friends with her. (link)
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Did you tell her all this? Tell her that shes the last one you have and the way shes treating you, you dont like that. Really though if she doesnt listen to that then she is really not a friend now. Do you know the reason why shes acting like that? Ask her, maybe theres a reason. The basic thing here is cummincation...theres none of it as far as i can see. Just talk to her and shes rude about that then really shes not your friend. You should talk to your other friends about that too. Maybe they can give good input too. I hope all goes well and keep me updated:-)
-Krazy
EDIT: i understand what you mean when you say if you let her go then you would have no other good friends. You know its better to MAKE new friends then keeping a bitch as one. Sorry if that sounds harsh. But yeah there should be someone else at your school that you can be close friends with. Really, you have 2 friends for after school rite? and you have acquaintences at school so your just about fine. But still talk to other people and get to know other people if you want. First find out what her problem is though. She shouldnt be acting like that. Remember my inbox is always open
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Rating: 5
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thanks
and i know there is no reason cause she tells me everything. Its always been like that. But ill try to talk to her. if it turns to a fight ill end it.
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