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i have ...well i used to have this "best friend" and shes always been there for me and we've been through so much together, for 3, almost 4 years you cant even imagine how much we've been through. ever since 10th grade started shes been ignoring me and acting like a complete jerk and im really sick of it. shes not treating me like she used to at all. and the problem is i cant really get away from her because some of my friends are friends with her and i wanna spend time with those friends but not with her. im just so sick of her being like this i tried talking to her and she was just like "im not treating you bad.." should i just get rid of her? what should i do?

PLEASE HELP. =[

all i can tell you is this:
if you honestly want to hang out with them, but shes gonna be there too, you will just have to deal with it.
its all or nothing pretty much.
i know exactly what thats like, because last year mostly, my best friend didnt get along with some of the other people i hung out with, but she stayed anyways. just ignore her. just because shes there doesnt mean you have to interact with her. of course, im not saying to be mean. if she says something to you, be nice back. even if she says something mean.
kill 'em with kindness.

but as for her and what you should do about that --> i would try to TALK to her and tell her how you feel one more time, and if she doesn't believe it or refuses to do anything about it, go ahead and get rid of her. tell her that if she still wants to be your friend, she needs to stop, otherwise you are gone.

hope i helped :]

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