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So i like this guy and yes we do talk online sometimes. but at school we never talk coz i think were both too shy. he`s one year younger than me but were both in the same grade. My friend (who is friends with him) told me that he only goes out with girls because theyre "HOT". [and i also think that too sometimes]i really like him and all but i dont want to be with him. It seems like i dont know what that means but i also fantasize of being with him. I wonder if he asks me out, .. should i say yes or no? I think about him everyday and night. But im not obsessed. i Hope this doesnt sound confusing and i hope you can help. please&thank you. [:

i understand completely what your going through...the same thing happens to me sometimes. what i think is going on is that secretly you WANT to be with him...but then when you think about it more you realize that you don't want to go out with him because he only goes out with HOT girls and that is a little concieted.

so if i were you start a list of the reasons why you should go out with him and why you shouldn't and see which is bigger. or answer this. would you be ok dating him knowing that one of the only reason's he asked you out is that your hot? if that bothers you then don't do it.

sorry that i can't help you more but i don't want to just tell you yes or no because i don't really know this guy and you need to decide for yourself.

good luck!

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(Rating: 5) thank you very much for helping. i greatly appreciate it!

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