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Q: I'm 14/f and I know that I should probably forget about it until later or something but this has been lingering on my mind for a while and it's bothering me.

Well, first I believed in staying a virgin till marriage thing and I still do but it's that when I think about that, that would mean having had sex with only one partner and that bothers me, you know? I wanna experiment with other people than just one person. I don't know. Right now all I can think about when I see a guy that I like is: hmmm, I wanna have sex with him. And I haven't even had my first kiss yet. >.<

Haha, anywhos is this weird of me and what do you think on my thoughts on whether to stya a virgin or not.

And please don't tell me the "folloy my heart" or "you'll know when you're ready" thing. i just wan't a really honest opinion b/c right now, I really wanna just have sex with all my crushes

your a teenager,ALL teenagers go through the stage your at where your hormones are raging and you pretty much want on every guy that walks by you.I used to think waiting for marriage was the best thing to do too,but my opinions changed and i think thats a little drastic to me maybe its because i couldnt wait for marriage to have sex lol but anyways,i think if both persons are in love and care about one another very deeply and your not married then i say sure go for it..just as long as you know the concequences (sp) of having sex too like pregnacy and stds.I dont think you should lose your virginity anytime soon your very young to be having sex.I would say your ready when your old enough to actually take care of a child.So i think between 17 and up is when you can start thinking about having sex.You have to be physically and mentally ready to have sex.I hate seeing girls my age pregnant and only have sex because its "fun" and they just do it because there way too horny.But basicallyt youll know when you want to have sex and who with,just dont do it with someone your not completely in love with and arent sure about..and dont let any guy pressure you into having sex if you dont want too.I hope i could help!

♥ danielle