I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
Website: My Space
Gender: Female
Location: Dorset, UK
Occupation: Customer Liaison Case Officer
Age: 21
MSN: hottchickie@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 28, 2006
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OK I'm a female and I don't understand something. How is it I can help others like you guys but I can't help myself. Can you help me??? I thank you very much.
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The truth of the matter is that it will ALWAYS be easier to tell someone what they should be doing and how than it is to actually be the person going through it.
For example, it's all very well telling someone who is overweight to go for a walk instead of eating that chocolate cake but have you ever tried it!? It's really hard! In a more extreme way, it's easy to tell an alcoholic to go to an AA meeting and come up with a plan to get themselves off the sauce but it's so much easier than being the person who has to quite the addiction.
Anything that people are likely to ask advice on is something that is usually going to be difficult to carry out. The reason they ask for the advice is because there is no way forward they can see that is easy for them. Unfortunately, it's the nature of life. But don't worry, it might never be easy to help yourself but you will learn to become better at it.
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Hey thanks and I understand all of that I wish I could remeber some of that at times.
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