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I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.

I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.

Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.

I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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Location: Dorset, UK
Occupation: Customer Liaison Case Officer
Age: 21
MSN: hottchickie@hotmail.com
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I really miss my ex, we went out for at least a month and I think he is starting to want me back to because he is now flirting with me again, but I also really have some feeling for this other guy and he is a year older than me but that doesn't really matter but should i go back and give the guy who broke my heart a second chance or move on and get with this other guy i really like also. so confused, plz help (link)
It really depends on what this ex of yours did that broke your heart. If, for example, he just wasn't a perfect boyfriend, didn't call when he said he would, acted a bit of a lad around his friends and so on, then if you really like him you could give it another try.

If, on the other hand, your ex did something truly awful; if he cheated on you, stole from you, abused you or your trust in any way or was just downright horrible to you on purpose, don't look back and set your sights on this new guy in your life.

Put it this way, until we meet 'The One', I truly believe that all other relationships are there to teach us something. Think about your relationship with your ex and what you could have learned from it. If it was that he didn't know how to be a real boyfriend, it isn't worth it.


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