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Hey my names Kait and I'm 15. Music is my life i can't live without it! I am always giving advice to friends and such! Also I relate to situation very easily and love helping people. I decided to start one of these and I hope that I can help you in the best way possible. Thanx♥
advice is what we ask for when we
know the answer but we wish we didn't.
advice
Hi, I'm going into 10th grade 16/m- and school hasn't even started yet...
Well.. the harrassment has been going on since 4th grade...
Basically all the popular people and the majority of my class think that I'm a fag (like gay).. but I'm not.. I have a girlfriend of 6 months.. and we're really happy together...
I don't even act gay at all.. everyone just thinks I am.. and I think it's because most of my friends are girls.. but I don't understand why that would make me gay- because wouldn't that mean that I like hanging out with girls because they are nice to me??
I just feel like no one cares about me and everyone is making fun of me
Another thing.. I am one of the smartest people in the class (4.0 average).. and I always do good on tests.. do people make fun of me because they are jealous that I get good grades and they don't.. I mean I don't go around bragging about my grades.. people ask me what I got.. and I just tell them in a modest way...
I don't understand why everyone thinks I'm a homo.. when I'm not...
oh.. and on myspace- I put up a picture that was the one everyone does (upside down peace sign with big sunglasses).. so then one of the people who makes fun of me posts a comment about it saying "wow ur a homo" so i posted a comment back saying "i was making fun of myspace.. lol".. so then he posts regular comments saying stuff like "i wasn't kidding about the pic comment" and "everyone thinks you're a fag" and "we hate you"...
So that just made me think of how much my class despises me- and I don't even say anything mean to them.. I try being nice.. but they just aren't.. the only ones who actually care about me are my close friends.. and that's only like 10 people max. outta the 250-300 in my class...
Am I just worried about nothing?
Am I really that much of a loser?
Please don't say "go talk to a counselor" because I tried that in middle school and the counselor was really stupid about it
Please help!
sorry this was so long
first of all you're not gay and you know that obviously.the word homo or gay is used to describe many tihngs in our society. and alot of the time the meaning of the word doesnt even fit the situation it is used in so don't take it so personally. teenagers are afraid of things they arent used to. so to cover those insecurities they make fun of them. you're different than the other guys in your grade and thats not a bad thing. some guys may be jealous that most of your friends are girls and that theirs arent. also the fact that you are smarter than most of them. just keep a posotive out look and dont let the things they say get to you. i mean they can't make fun of you forever. have you tried laughing with them like making it a joke? that might work. if you dont respond the way they want you to when they make fun of you its not entertaining for them so they'll eventually stop. just remember that what doesnt kill you only makes you stronger!!!
Kait♥
(Rating: 4) thanks a lot!
but I'm pretty sure that they actually think i'm gay
thanks again!