My name is Rae. I live in Colonie. I go to CCHS asa freshman. I'm 14, my birthday is October 7th (( tomorrow from wen im writing this lol )). I help my friends out with advice ALL the time and i'm pretty good at it. I keep an open mind and make sure i give people as many options and opions that i have for them. I'll try to come on here everday, but if i dont i may have computer problems, charging my laptop, working on a website, or currently dealing with my own problems. I want to open up to you guys and relate your problems to mine. I may be young but i have gone through a lot in my life, as well as seen people i'm very close to go through the same problems you are. I'm actually really bad at solving my own problems... which is probably why i'm good at solving other peoples.
There are a lot of useless random info about me and i dont want to bore you anymore haha. but if ya wanna no more e-mail me, IM me, or jus ask a question lol. thanx
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Ok to start 14/f
Before I ask my question I'll give you a backround
Today i woke up and i was pissed because i got little sleep. My little brother was talking to my dad about how i dont go to sleep when im supposed to (12am) because I get on my computer and stay on there till about 2 or 3 am. My dad was pissed and said that when school starts for the first 3 months he will cut off the internet. Then since I was still pissed I was ranting on about how school sucks and that landed me a 15 min lecture about how if i didnt go to school I wouldnt be smart and get a good job. Later today my older brother started thinking that im turning anerexic because I had not (and still havent) eaten anything all day. I kinda blew that off and then my mom said that I dont like my family because eariler i said that its not really that cool to go to the bowling alley with my family and not my friends. Shes says that im lazy and just dont want to get any exercise (even thiugh you dont exercise at a bowling alley) so now im thinking that my family is out to get me into the loony bin
So now my question is
do i apologize for being a sort of smartmouth
or just leave it alone and let them apologize.
I rate depending on the quality of the answer.
Thanks, DarkChocolate794 (link)
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Ick. I`m going to try and help you to the best of my ability. I`m not sure if it will make much sense, and it might be reeeally long. But I`m trying here.
I`m 14/f too and I never get a long with my parents either. So I know where you`re coming from. I do the same thing, Go to "bed" and then cruise myspace or anything else until mid morning. But your probably going to need the internet for school. So to get out of losing the internet tell him that your going to need it to do projects and homework assignments everynight and if you lose it you wont be able to do as good. Tell him that his lecture about school and not getting a good job made you realize that school is important and you want to start school off on the good foot, and no internet could jeapordize that. Yeah, It might be lying, but it`ll get you what you want and make your dad feel good.
And just because you dont eat something one day doesnt mean your going anorexic. Siblings, older or younger, say things just to make you mad for their own amuesment. I wouldnt pay any attention to it. Although your older brother should know better than to throw serious accusations areound, it sounds like he was just kidding around. Make sure you eat in front of your family so they know you arent anorexic ( and dont go right to the bathroom after so they dont think your bullemic ) that way no matter what your brother has been saying, they know hes just full of crap.
As for bowling, talk to your mom by herself. I know from experience sometimes parents... ugh you dont even wanna deal with them. But if you go up to her and say that you do love your family, but that going out in public with them makes you feel weird. And that your sorry and that sounds wrong but it was your teenage-ness coming out and that youd rather be with friends then family. Or say that you just dont like bowling that much with family cause its too competitive for you. Then try going on walks and doing some physical things so that shell knock the lazyness out of her mind.
I hope I helped babe.
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