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My name is Rae. I live in Colonie. I go to CCHS asa freshman. I'm 14, my birthday is October 7th (( tomorrow from wen im writing this lol )). I help my friends out with advice ALL the time and i'm pretty good at it. I keep an open mind and make sure i give people as many options and opions that i have for them. I'll try to come on here everday, but if i dont i may have computer problems, charging my laptop, working on a website, or currently dealing with my own problems. I want to open up to you guys and relate your problems to mine. I may be young but i have gone through a lot in my life, as well as seen people i'm very close to go through the same problems you are. I'm actually really bad at solving my own problems... which is probably why i'm good at solving other peoples.

There are a lot of useless random info about me and i dont want to bore you anymore haha. but if ya wanna no more e-mail me, IM me, or jus ask a question lol. thanx


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hi. I am a 13/f and i started my period about 6 months ago. I play soccer alot and do track in school. I have never used a tampon, only pads. My mom wont bring the subject up and i'm too nervous to ask her how to use it or if I can use them. PLEASE HELP!!!! my soccer tournament is in a few weeks and thats when my next period is supposed to come! any advice on how my mom can bring up the subject? or how i can get the nerve to talk to her about this?? should i just not tell her and just use one?? but i've never used one before and i'm nervous and dont know how to use one. PLEASE HELP!! thank you sooooo much (link)
A tampon is a serious thing to use. if it isnt used properly it could cause something (sorry i dont remember what its been a while since those sex videos in health class. But i do know something happens when it isnt used right) She isnt going to bring it up unless you start hinting. When your in the grocery store say "oh wow look at that tampon" or something. Otherwise just go up to her when your alone with her and ask her about it. Thats what moms are for. I know its hard to talk to parents about stuff like that but she wants to help you.

If you still dont feel right asking your mom, then you can ask to see your doctor and they`ll tell you everything you need to know. Tell your mom you need a physical before the soccer competitions. Its completely free anyway. Or you can just call your doctor and ask.

Hope I helped.


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thanks alot. i'll start talking to my mom.




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