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Hey my names Kait and I'm 15. Music is my life i can't live without it! I am always giving advice to friends and such! Also I relate to situation very easily and love helping people. I decided to start one of these and I hope that I can help you in the best way possible. Thanx♥


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I had this one REALLY close guy friend, Jason, who I had been friends with for three years. Recently we told eachother that we have stronger feelings than 'just friends.'

Since then nothing had happened between us and I was okay with that but I REALLY wanted to kiss him. So last night we were at a party and when he arrived I kissed him. It was shortlived since it was just a 'hello' kiss, but it was our first (and last?).

Five minutes before this I told one of my best friends, Ann, that I liked Jason a lot. Ann has a boyfriend.

Just after I kissed Jason, so did Ann. We had been drinking (Jason hadn't) so I thought it was kind of funny and she only kissed him on the cheek.

About thirty minutes later Ann, who was NOT drunk, said 'Jason, I want to kiss you' so she kissed him on the cheek again. As she was pulling away Jason started to make out with her and they frenched for about 30 seconds. I was shocked but blew it off. I was SO turned off by what Jason had done and he looked at me right after he did it. I don't know what was going through his head.

I quickly left the room and tried to forget about what I just saw. I was shocked that Jason would do that.. and shocked that Ann would too since she knew I liked him.

Once it came time to go back to my house (Ann was sleeping over), Ann and I were saying bye to everyone. Then Ann went up to Jason and they french kissed and it was obvious that he likes her now. I couldn't even look at him, nevermind say bye, I was disgusted.

Should I ever talk to Jason or Ann again? Right now I am telling myself not to be upset (since that never helps anything) but I need to make a decision. I don't know if I should even continue to be friends with Jason. Plus, Ann cheated on her boyfriend by doing that but Jason doesn't know she has a boyfriend.

If I stop being friends with Jason I will probably lose 20 friends since he is always hanging out with them and I won't want to be there if he is. And he is usually the one to invite me to be with them. I have a lot of other friends since I'm one of the 'popular' girls but I really like being with them (I get straight A's but that gets boring so I like to party and drink with them.)

I am thinking of forgetting of what Jason did and if I run into him at another party I could be like Ann and make out with him and then he could like me again.

Sorry that this is SO long, advice is greatly appreciated so thank you so, so, SO much. :)


First of all dont be like your friend Ann and make out with him to get him to like you.
I would be more mad at Ann than Jason if it were me. You told her you liked him and she obviously knew that. Also she cheated on her boyfriend. Explain to Ann that you are upset by the fact that she made out with jason considering the fact that she know you liked him. The fact that you were drinking really doesnt matter thought because you said neither of you were drunk so ann obviously knew what she was doing when she kissed him. Just let her know it upset you and that you would like an appology.
As for Jason... Pretty much all guys are pigs and will kiss any girl that kisses them. which is probably the case with him.let jason know that ann does have a boyfriend at that she doesnt like ihm in that way. but do it in a way so that you dont sound jealous. Then just see where the relationship goes from there.
HOPE I HELPED!

Kait♥

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