No, do not change at all.
Never change for a guy. He should like you for WHO YOU ARE. If you change for him... that's just stupid. ((Don't mean to be blunt))
He's a guy... not a GOD. You don't change for him to like you. Your true love will love you the way you are and will love everything about you. If he isn't interested in your style or attitude, he's not the guy for you.
However, I'm not saying give up. Flirt with him. DO NOT ASK HIM OUT! That'll freak him out and scare him away. The BIGGEST turn-on is HARD TO GET. Works everytime. Act flirtatious around him, make him want you, and yank everything out from under him. Then, eventually, give in. lol. Works everytime.
If you're not very good at flirting, just have a conversation. Start out as friends. Act like he's one of your best girlfriends ((But don't talk about nails, hair, and makeup. :-P))
If you're really cool and outgoing and you act like yourself and you be who you REALLY are, he should like you for that. If he's not interested in you, Do not take it personal. Don't think you're ugly or anything. Don't feel down on yourself. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
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You don't need a guy like that, anyways. A guy who is thinking of changing you is a jackass and you deserve better than that. Any girl deserves than that, unless it's a complete bitch.
Hey, you're still young. Have fun being ingle!
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The right guy will come along for you and you will be very happy with him and he won't care WHAT the hell you wear or how you have your hair/makeup. He will love you for YOU. Personality means everything to me. Looks matter too but not as much.
Trust me. Your guy will come. Try this one out. Have a descent conversation with him/flirt and everything will work out fine.
If this doesn't work, I'm really sorry but I'm trying the best I can to give you the very best advice I have. :-]]
If you have any further questions or if I didn't clarify something, message me and I will be sure to fix it!
♥ Kayla
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