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Q: Whenever I'm not with my boyfriend I'm happy. And when I'm on my way to see him I think to my self "why didn't I cancel? Why am I going to see him. I don't want to see him!"
But when I do meet him and when I'm with him, I like it and I want to be with him. But then When I have to go I get happy for leaving him!
What's that all about?? Don't I like him? Is it somethig wrong with me??
Hmm...

This is a really tough question... even for me. It seems to me that you don't really know what you want yet. You're having mixed emotions. This is normal. I'm the same way sometimes, with my boyfriend.

It's the feeling of insecurity. Maybe you like SOME things about him but OTHER things bother you a little bit.

Here, think of it this way: Write down all the things you would change about him and all the things you love about him.

See which column has more, likes or dislikes.

If you have more likes, then you'll be able to work everything out and stay with him for a while... I hope! =-]

If you have more DISLIKES, you should probably talk to him about it. Not about him changing ((I don't mean to be blunt)) but about breaking it off...

Maybe just spending some time being single and then consider rekindling everything after thinking a little bit about what you want to do.

You cannot have a relationship where you feel insecure or unsteady in any way.

Your relationship should be steady and healthy and I guarentee you will be happy! =-]

I hope I helped you and if I did, you can ask me ANYTHING ANYTIME! I'm always here! :-)

♥ Kayla

Thank you, youre an awesome advicenator!! I'm going to start writing the list right now! =)

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