askx_pink_x109
advice column ask question view feedback favorite columnist advicenators

Q: My boyfriend cheated on me one week after we got together. Now I have taken him back (about 2 weeks after he cheated on me). All of my friends thinks it's a misstake but I believe in second chaces and I like this guy...All advicenators out there do you believe in the term- "once a cheater, always a cheater"??
Was it a big misstake to take him back, should I dump him for what he did to me?
Well,

if he was really happy with you in the first place, he wouldn't have done it BUT then there is ALWAYS the possibility of him CHANGING his "ways" and trying to improve the way he treats not only you but other girls too...

It all depends on the guy... Is he known for lieing? Would he ever lie to you MORE THAN ONCE? Has he ever lied to other people?

Ask these questions to yourself.

If he has a history of lieing to peopleust ask yourelf those simple questions. Lieing isn't good at all, especially to a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Either he likes you or he doesn't but he cannot keep lieing to you.

It ruins everything. Yall will never be the same, you won't have as much fun together, and eventually, you'll get sick of seeing each other. You do not want that to happen.

So my advice is: Give him another chance but keep a CAREFUL eye on him... it's not called SPYING...it's called BEING A GIRLFRIEND! Hahaha. Come on, you have to know what he does. Just don't get carried away and go to the extremes with this. Don't hide in bushes or follow him around with video cameras. Just watch who he hangs out with.

I hope I helped you in any way possible. You can ask me anything, anytime. I'm always here. :-)

♥ Kayla

Thanks, I'll thnk about what you said =)

bio
x_pink_x109
I'm Kayla.
:D

Info
Website:
E-mail:
Gender:
Female

Location:
Texas

Occupation:
Student at LPHS

Age:
15

AIM:
Member Since:
July 13, 2005

Answers:
123

Last Update:
June 10, 2008

Visitors:
13163

Main Categories:





Favorite Columnists















layout by Adam Particka

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker