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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me


please help love me xxxxxxxxxxx

The decision to have sex is a major one...and in my opinion it shouldn't even be an option when you're 14 or 15 years old and have only been in the relationship for a week. You can't REALLY love a person unless you REALLY know them and you can't REALLY know them if you've only been dating for a week. I mean, if he's already given you oral and you've only been together a week, you're moving WAY too fast physically. Ultimately it's your decision to make and if you choose to have sex with him please use protection for your own good.

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(Rating: 4) tis good advice just comes a tad too late cause its over lol and its happened but thanks for the thought and the advice:) xxxxxxxx
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