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I'm not a good friend. I don't do it on purpose but I let friends go easy. They like, move to a different school and we say we'll stay in touch...but then I don't call.

If friends want me I'm like there for them and all but I dunno I find it hard to meet new people and speak to them cos I'm quite shy so I'm losing friends and can't make new ones so I'm left out a lot and feel very lonely.

What can i do to get new friends and be better at keeping the old ones?

Hun, you're not a bad friend. Everyone is like that. People say that they'll stay in touch, but more than half of them don't.

I have not kept in touch with my friends this summer. However, my friend went to Malaysia and New York for the past summer. I finally just decided to call her and ask her if she wanted to go ride go karts with me. It's as simple as a phone call.

I know how you feel. I used to be very, very shy when I was about 13/14. You have to show people that you're willing to talk to them. Don't be shy. Be loud and happy. I fooled around with my friends and was a little crazy, LOL. I made tons of new friends because people saw that I wasn't the shy person sitting alone.

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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(Rating: 5) That was really nice. Thanks a lot.

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