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The name's Emily.First off- thanks for actually reading this!
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First of thanks to anyone who tries to help me. Your not waisting your time as I will rate and give feed back for all advice. Here goes. My husband lives in California, I live in North carolina, he flew down here to marry me and I'm going to live with him in a couple weeks (we lived together before but had to return to nc for custody issues with my daughter from a previous marriage) I am having serious trust issues with him and I don't know why. Every little thing he does, I find something wrong with it and want to start an argument and call it quits. I dont know why I do this, as I love him with all my heart. A couple months ago we broke up and I miscarried, he didnt call me the whole time and i think I have alot of anger torwards him for that. Is there any way to get over this? Please help me. I do want to make this marriage work. p.s. I'm 24, he's 26.
Well I am 14, so mabye my anwser is dumb, but I'll give it a shot.
I think your trust issues come from a previous failure in marriage. You don't want that to happen again, so you worry about what's going on in the relationship. Just try relaxing and finding a different focus in life. Call him and let him know you want to make things better, do something special for him.
However, you are not the only one at fault. Looks like he did wrong too and he owes you an apology. You guys need to get together and have a long talk. Good luck!
(Rating: 5) Your answer was not dumb... thanks for taking the time to try to help me.