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14/f.
i have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months. we have dry sex and thats pretty much as far as we have gone. hes lately been talking to me about if im ready to have sex. he bought the condoms and everything. but im kinda nervous. i have my period and everything, but i dont know. he said if im not ready its okay hes not in a big rush but i kind of want to. PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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This question is asked quite often by other girls your age. Ultimately the final decision will be between you and your partner, but I will give you some pointers and information that will hopefully allow you to make the right choice--what's best for you. Sex is a big deal. A lot of people take it casually. I know it seems like you have been with your boyfriend for a long time and y'all love each other, but chances are, he isn't going to be your only boyfriend. Trust me, I was with someone for 4 years--and it didn't work out. I didn't mean to say that to scare you--just to make you aware. With that said, if you do choose to have sex, know that it can and mostly likely will alter the whole direction of your relationship. You are going to feel even more attached to him. He probably will want to have it more regularly, even if he says he doesn't he will. Also, you need to be aware of the risk of STDs, pregnancy, etc. Condoms aren't 100% effective. Also, even if he says he won't tell, keep in mind that it could get out, and your reputation could be at stake. High school can be brutal, so just know that. Another thing, are you ready for the physical, emotional pains and worries? It's a big move, but if you feel 150% ready, with NO doubts..then you should know what to do. :)
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Rating: 5
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thank you. you really made me think. =]
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