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My name's Kendal and i'm 17. I've been through quite alot of stuff, from heart breaks, to messed up parents with drug addictions & not being together, to fights with just about anyone about anything. I'm the youngest of 7 children, 4 brothers & now two sisters. In school I use to be the kind of girl who thought they were better then everyone else, and was the popular bitch who played varsity basketball & softball as a freshman. Alot has changed. After my older sister died things sort of started coming into perspective. And i just wanna help ppl out now. If you need anything about anything. I'm here to talk, help, listen, whatever. I dont judge, and i usually can understand where the ppl are coming from. My lifes had alot of ups and downs and i really just wanna help out. I wish i would of known about this site a few years ago! Currently i have a boyfriend, Chad. And i usually hang out w/ him and my friends after school and on the weekends. I'm super social, and i think easy to talk to. So ask me anything! Btw the user name's from the song, from the tv show; 8th and ocean. If anyone was wondering. ha. MUCH LOVE!
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Well, whenever me and my two best friends hang out it's all good and we're all happy and talkative with eachother. But lately, this one girl has started to come in and talk to us and whenever she does, I tend to get the left-out feeling. I'll talk but my two other friends'll be like,"Wait, what did you say?" and they sort of pay more attention to her and walk with her more. So basically, I get the boot. But like I said, whenever she's NOT there we're all completely fine and everything.
I just don't know how to handle her whenever she's there.
It's getting to the point that whenever they want her to hang out with all of us I have to make up a lie of some sort so she wouldn't be able to come along.
Help?
Ah. Thats a hard one. if i was you i think i would just really try to include yourself more. or like sort of invite another person that your good friends w/ to come along when you guys all hang out, that way if you do start feeling left out you'll have your other friend to sort of lean on and talk to. And i dont know. Maybe if you start bringing up old memories w/ those two friends of yours, they'll start having alot to talk to you about. And sort of remember the old times that you guys have had & then you guys can talk about that. I'm not saying to leave the other girl out, but that way your somewhat included more. I'm sorry if that doesnt help alot. Good Luck tho :]
(Rating: 5) Thanks. That's actually a perfect idea. We're going somewhere soon all together, and I can just invite someone else [ and since she's not friends with them she probably won't talk to them much ]. Thanks again!