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I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.

I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.

Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.

I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
Website: My Space
Gender: Female
Location: Dorset, UK
Occupation: Customer Liaison Case Officer
Age: 21
MSN: hottchickie@hotmail.com
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I like this guy, Nick F. I think hes realy hot and I think he like me. But theres a problem, he cheats on all of his girlfreinds. Hes realy nice to me and I realy like him. But my freind wentout with him and she says that he abused her. But she has been nown to lie about her boyfreinds. So I dont know what to do. Please help.
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My honest opinion is that if he has cheated on all of his previous girlfriends, however much he may seem to like you, there's no reason to believe that you will be an exception to this. I'm sorry, I know that sounds like a truly horrible thing to say, but you need to be sure that you look after yourself. If you know deep down that he is not a nice guy to his girlfriends, then you know it isn't a good idea. You also have to remember that he got all of his previous girlfriends by being nice to them in the beginning.

Unfortunately, guys like this have no respect for women and their main aim in life (at least when they are young) is to get through as many of them as possible. It is entirely up to you but please please bear in mind that if you do go out with him, you need to prepare to have your heart broken.


Rating: 5
Thanks. I dont think I will.




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