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tonights the formal at my school & since your not allowed to being anyone from outside the school my boyfriend can't come. I really didn't want to go since I wouldn't be able to dance with anyone (like grinding) But one of my guy friends says he does it with other girls during dances (and he has a girlfriend) and that the point is to have fun & he thinks it's not cheating. Is grinding with another guy, just as a fun thing not like like you have feelings for the person, considered cheating? thanks.

I think that if you don't let the guy make any moves on you, then you should be okay. You probably shouldn't grind because sometimes you might not even know it and you can take it too far. Just be careful. Talk with your boyfriend first and tell him that nothing intimate is going to happen and that this is just for fun.

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