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Hey, first of all, thanks so much for reading this.
My parents fight ALL the time. I feel so terrible for my mom because she raises all three kids without any of my dads help. My dad is always out working..i think. He hates spending time with the family. Also, if he is having an issue with anyone in the family, he does not talk about it. He is one of those people that does not talk about how he feels. It is very irritating because there is always tension between my parents and I can always sense it. Last night, my dad told my mom that marrying her was the worst mistake of his life. Today, (mothers day) they are not speaking. At all. I would rather them get a divorce then them staying together unhappily. What should I do?

Thanks~

i know this isnt what you want to hear, but you really cant do much. you have to just let them fight it out. im really sorry you have to go through this, but they prolly feel they have to stay together [for you and your siblings' sakes]. maybe you should try having them see marrige counciling, to see what a prefessional thinks they should do. there is always bumps in a road, but if your dads never home and they were fighting over mothers day - then i think theres a problem. now to when your dad said that thing to your mom- when people fight they always say things they dont mean, but sometimes they go to far and thats what it seems he did. most liekly he didnt mean it, but he was just really mad. if you feel really uncomfortable with it, then maybe talk to a school councelor and they will most likely be able to give you advice on what you should do.

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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