My name is Rae. I live in Colonie. I go to CCHS asa freshman. I'm 14, my birthday is October 7th (( tomorrow from wen im writing this lol )). I help my friends out with advice ALL the time and i'm pretty good at it. I keep an open mind and make sure i give people as many options and opions that i have for them. I'll try to come on here everday, but if i dont i may have computer problems, charging my laptop, working on a website, or currently dealing with my own problems. I want to open up to you guys and relate your problems to mine. I may be young but i have gone through a lot in my life, as well as seen people i'm very close to go through the same problems you are. I'm actually really bad at solving my own problems... which is probably why i'm good at solving other peoples.
There are a lot of useless random info about me and i dont want to bore you anymore haha. but if ya wanna no more e-mail me, IM me, or jus ask a question lol. thanx
x333333 RaE aKa LiL sHoRtY
Website: MySpAcE
E-mail: x3candiigurrrl@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Colonie New York
Occupation: Radio Host && Singer/Songwriter
Age: 14
AIM: x3candiigurrrl
Yahoo: x3candiigurrrl
MSN: raexnicolee@hotmail.com
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I RATE 5s. Im 14/f and I have a lot of small problems that I can't discuss with my friends. Well.. I can, but they have problems of their own to deal with. Even when they tell me their problems, sometimes I freak out that night- not because of their problem, just from too much negativity in my life. Sometimes I really want to cut... but I hate blood, so I can never go through with it. I think I might give out a "i have no problems" kind of vibe. I don't show up as an emotional person cus I don't want people to see that. I don't have THAT many problems,its just things build up inside me. I have no one to talk to about issues- I won't be talking to my parents about them, so please don't give that advice. I also have major trust issues because of most of my friends during elementry school. So if I do tell my friends something, I end up freaking out that night thinking they will tell someone. I'm not emo, I dont dress it, act like it, or any of that. I'm just sad on the inside. Most of my sadness lately is caused of loss of control over my life. I REALLY like this guy and he has a gf... but theres nothing i can do about it. My grades are going down and theres not much I can do to change them... stuff like that.
Thanks SO much. Sorry it was so long.
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ok this is extremely creepy... you are like me... like a mirror me haha. minus the cutting and the fact you even use the word emo.
Anyway the point is i know how you feel. And whatever you do dont harm your body in anyway, through cutting or drugs or anything like that. It will only make it worse trust me.
I know how it feels to be known as the girl with no problems... the one whose life is great and helps everyone else with there problems. Im that girl, and i know its hard because you sit there helping other people but you just cant help yourself. Jus realize that you can trust your friends, i mean they're trusting you with there problems.
Not everyone is going to screw you over and go behind your back. If you tell people your problems they will help you. And just because they have problems doesnt mean they cant help you with yours. Sometimes telling people makes everything better. And if you dont think you can trust your friends... you could always tell the people on here your problems, wed love to help lol.
I'm not an insanely emotional person either, but like i said its creepy.. because i feel the same way you do. The way i get throught it is with my friends, and music. Do things you love to do it helps. But if you keep bottling things in youll end up hurting yourself, and probably others. Its the best thing to do.
And my grades are going down too... but its because we are so stressed out we cant put all of our focus into our grades. Which is another reason why you have to let how you feel out.
As for the guy you like... you can always wait for him to break up with his gf... or as mean as it sounds... flirt with him a little to let him know that you like him, he might even like you more than his gf.
I really hope i helped... and if you want to talk to someone you can im me on aim at ii l 0 V E x UU
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