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Q: i'm female 14 years old...well you will think this is normal and everything but i still feel weird:

yesterday it was about 11:30 at night and i was still awake listening to some radio then i became thirsty and i wanted to go downs stairs to get something to drink and then on my way downstairs i heard me parents having sex.... it was soo weird my mom was like making this really weird sounds and i heard how my dad kissed my mom and i dont know i was just standing there listening i couldnt move... but yeah then when i couldnt hear anything i went back to my room... and then my little sister (she's only 11 years old) also heard it cause her room is right next to my parents bedroom and she came into my room and she was really nervous and scared! and so am i and i dont know i just have a weird feeling about all this...what should i do?? its just freaking me out!!! and my sister also totally dosnt get it and she said she cant trust our parents or something :-/

any advice???

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AHH thank god theres someone out there who has witnessed it,i was going to ask this kinda question when i first came here because i was just to weirded out.It happens to all of us i guess,it happened to me when i was sick around the age of 10 andi was up late and i guess i woke up both of my parents and they just "did it" i rushed back to bed and cried i dont know why hten i didnt talk to them for a day i was just too grossed out but im just pretty much used to it by now but it still gives me the creeps.If your parents are really shy and quiet people who dont usually talk about personal things with you,i wouldnt talk to them about it because my parents were like that and they didnt really answer my questions and kinda brushed it off like i never said anything,then i would just talk to your sister about it about the whole "sex thing" and say moms and dads all do this and that its normal us kids just dont think of our parents in that way as "wanting sex" and that one day well understand when were married,i think thats the best way to handle it.If your parents are open minded people and talk and are very open with you then i would talk to one of your parents about it (personally i would pick your mom,but which ever parent your most comfortable with is fine too) and talk to them about it and say that you think they should talk to your sister about it because shes worried and scared im sure your mom will understand and will be glad that you told her.

♥ danielle


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