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My name's Kendal and i'm 17. I've been through quite alot of stuff, from heart breaks, to messed up parents with drug addictions & not being together, to fights with just about anyone about anything. I'm the youngest of 7 children, 4 brothers & now two sisters. In school I use to be the kind of girl who thought they were better then everyone else, and was the popular bitch who played varsity basketball & softball as a freshman. Alot has changed. After my older sister died things sort of started coming into perspective. And i just wanna help ppl out now. If you need anything about anything. I'm here to talk, help, listen, whatever. I dont judge, and i usually can understand where the ppl are coming from. My lifes had alot of ups and downs and i really just wanna help out. I wish i would of known about this site a few years ago! Currently i have a boyfriend, Chad. And i usually hang out w/ him and my friends after school and on the weekends. I'm super social, and i think easy to talk to. So ask me anything! Btw the user name's from the song, from the tv show; 8th and ocean. If anyone was wondering. ha.
MUCH LOVE!

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My 2 best friends [who arent even that good of friends with each other] went out last night with a few guys and this girl who are considered cool. My friend invited me to go, but I didnt want to because i wasnt exactly invited by the others. So my best friend went and asked my other friend, and they went and had a BLAST. they then had a sleepover afterwards and couldnt stop repeating how FUN it was. It got me pretty pissed, and they left a message on my fone saying that they didnt think we could be friends anymore because we get in to many fights? Im not sure if they were kidding but I dont know what to do. My friend is really not that social, but over AIM last nite she basically told me that she was sooo cool becuase she is friends with them and im not. what do i do. i need advice.

They seem REALLY mean first off. And if I was you I would quickly make new friends. And kind of ignore those two. I def. wouldnt start fighting w/ them and i wouldnt make it seem like you didnt want to me friends w/ them anymore, because by the way they seem they'd prob just make a huge deal out of nothing & turn it in to some un-needed drama. But make new friends. I dont know what grade your in, but coolness doesnt last very long in school for the most part. Dont let them know that they got to you tho, thats what they wanted when they left that mean message on your phone. But yeah your in a hard situation, you obviously dont wanna start anything but you dont wanna just take it. BUT WHATEVER YOU DO, once you get other friends.. and when they wanna be friends w/ you again, dont go back. Their not worth it, and they dont seem like the kind of friends that would stay by your side and be there for you. Well good luck :]

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(Rating: 5) thanks ill do that. :]]

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