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My name's Kendal and i'm 17. I've been through quite alot of stuff, from heart breaks, to messed up parents with drug addictions & not being together, to fights with just about anyone about anything. I'm the youngest of 7 children, 4 brothers & now two sisters. In school I use to be the kind of girl who thought they were better then everyone else, and was the popular bitch who played varsity basketball & softball as a freshman. Alot has changed. After my older sister died things sort of started coming into perspective. And i just wanna help ppl out now. If you need anything about anything. I'm here to talk, help, listen, whatever. I dont judge, and i usually can understand where the ppl are coming from. My lifes had alot of ups and downs and i really just wanna help out. I wish i would of known about this site a few years ago! Currently i have a boyfriend, Chad. And i usually hang out w/ him and my friends after school and on the weekends. I'm super social, and i think easy to talk to. So ask me anything! Btw the user name's from the song, from the tv show; 8th and ocean. If anyone was wondering. ha.
MUCH LOVE!

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okay so i was with this guy for like a year and i loved him alot and then after school started the folling year he changed and kept telling me that i was changing and then in november we broke up and i have since moved on with my life i haven't rly had another boyfriend and i wanted to stay friends with him but we have this thing between us everyone who knows what i was to him and what he was to me knows we should be toghether but he just makes everything hard for me. he will email me and say rly weird things to me and i dont know how to deal with it. i keep talking about him but i dont know why. i have the sudden urge to call him because we talked all the time when we were together and i feel like its not fair please help me
Thanks Alot
not so amazing guy

You should call him. if you have those urges to do it, your bodies really telling you that you like him still. and even if you dont you can realize that once you talk to him.
I understand exactly where your coming from when he says he thinks you have changed. It hurts. Because you probably think your the exact same person you were, but the truth is you probably have changed and he only notices it because he was so close to you before, or even if you didnt change he feels you have because you guys arent together anymore. Thats def. a change and probably changed how you were, even if it was only a little changed. But the weird emails he sends you your just gunna have to tell him you think their weird. Be completely honest about how you feel. And if your talking about him constantly, that means your thinking about him constantly and that means you still have feelings for him even if their only friendly feelings. You guys probably could be friends if you took the time and both worked at the relationship. But yeah i would def. call him, talk to him, and maybe even ask him to hang out. As friends.

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