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My name's Kendal and i'm 17. I've been through quite alot of stuff, from heart breaks, to messed up parents with drug addictions & not being together, to fights with just about anyone about anything. I'm the youngest of 7 children, 4 brothers & now two sisters. In school I use to be the kind of girl who thought they were better then everyone else, and was the popular bitch who played varsity basketball & softball as a freshman. Alot has changed. After my older sister died things sort of started coming into perspective. And i just wanna help ppl out now. If you need anything about anything. I'm here to talk, help, listen, whatever. I dont judge, and i usually can understand where the ppl are coming from. My lifes had alot of ups and downs and i really just wanna help out. I wish i would of known about this site a few years ago! Currently i have a boyfriend, Chad. And i usually hang out w/ him and my friends after school and on the weekends. I'm super social, and i think easy to talk to. So ask me anything! Btw the user name's from the song, from the tv show; 8th and ocean. If anyone was wondering. ha. MUCH LOVE!
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I feel like lately i've lost a lot of friends for the main point that I don't really care for the things they do... I've always felt older than I actualy am and I can't really get along with most people my age... But I have trouble making friends with older people because they don't take me seriously or give me a chance because I look like i'm a 15 year old "hooligan" i suppose ((i'm 18))... Actualy, I have trouble making friends in general. Anyway, It seems like most of my "friends" have abandoned me and that has kinda made me feel a bit down lately, but the few times i've hung out with them, I just don't feel like I belong anymore. I feel left out. Everytime I feel like I actualy belong somewhere or I feel like I fit in with a group of people, it always turns out that I don't... And it's not like I start a fight or anything of that sort... I just never feel like I belong.
Personaly, and not to sound cockey, but I like my personality and the way I am and i'm not the type to change just so I can fit in with a bunch of kids... But a part of my personality is that I like people and I just get down easily when I'm alone.
There's no direct question, Just want some opinions on any of this or advice.
Thanks.
peAce
18/f
Alright. My brother use to tell me a similar thing about his friends, he always felt like the dad in the group because everyone else was immature. And he use to try and do the things they would do w/ them, but it was never fun for him, because his personality was totally different. But anyways, heres what he did. He started hanging out w/ people on his sports teams, not i dont know if you play sports but they have so many different ages and groups that if you like something similar a frienship can began there. But also your 18, which makes it hard to just pick something up, or anything like that. Plus if your a senior in highschool you might be the most mature one there. I would just try and find ppl a year older then you, and if they dont take you serious, move on to a different group of ppl older then you, someone eventually will. Two of my best friends are in the grade above me and i think it makes it almost a stronger relationship, you dont see them as much, but when you do boy do you got alot to talk about.
*thats just my opinion* to really try and make friends w/ the peopel older then you. And if that doesnt work think about just spending some time alone, sometimes just spending a weekend by yourself can be fun. Possibly find guys to hang out with, yeah they can be even more immature but you'll expect it and you wont be doing the same things that you do w/ the girls. Lastly, look for some family. If you have any cousins close in your age that live close i think they are always fun to hang out w/, they basically like you because they've known you for so long, and they might be feeling the same way.. if its in your blood. ha sorry if that wasnt to helpful. I tryed. MUCHO GRANDE LOVE.
(Rating: 5) Thanks!