jbdreamer's advice column

my mom and i have had fights about the weirdest thing ever. she wants me to wear a lot of make-up when i go out... and when i say a lot i'm not exaggerating.. she makes me wear like super purple eyeshadow and red lipstick. i personally don't think that i should be looking that rediculous. i'm not an old lady. and today she decided that i should skip school because we weren't really having class today, it was like a fun day but i didn't feel like going and we were going to go out to lunch and i was going to spend a fun day with my mother, which I sometimes don't really get to do. But, this morning I put on a red shirt that said surf on it. she had a FIT! She said that how could i wear that and that i wasn't wearing enough make-up.... and now she's not talking to me. I know that this must be the stupidest thing ever, but I'm mad now because we were suppose to have a fun day together and I was really looking forward to having a fun day outside of school.... what can i telll her??? thx xoxo

Sorry you have to deal with such perculiar requests from a mother. Usually it's the opposite.

Tell her you are old enough to decide what to wear. Thank her for her suggestions, and say you are more comfortable in what you have choosen. And as for the make-up, tell her you prefer the natrual look and that purple eye shadow is just not your style.

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