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i am 13 years old and i'm a female duh :-) ok and i really like this guy named uhm peter and i never realised i like him untill i had the feeling he likes me! he always smiled at me and once he talked to me but i was kind of meen because i never wanted him to know that i like him i know its weird! so i think he was upset but one week after that another guy told me: cornelia (thats me) robert ( a nother guy i really hate)loves you i was like : so i dont care! and then peter heard that and said : i love you 2 and i tried to be your friend but you where so meen! and then i was meen again I HATE MYSELF i was like: yeah 2 bad ore something like that :-( and now he wont talk to me anymore so he ignores me and i want to appologize but i cant because i am kind of shy when it comes to things like that and he always hangs with his friends so i wanted to call him but on my list where 3 numbers so i never knew which one to dile! and i peter is all i've been thinking about lately and i really really like him! so i need some advice! how can i appologize and what should i say without seeming stupid? I REALLY NEED ADVICE!!! thanks!!!! (link)
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Okay, not exactly a simple case of shyness. You seem to blurt out the first thing that comes to mind, which seems to be what you'd think would end the situation as soon as possible so you no longer have to be in it.
So what you could do is go through this in your head and call him. Go through each number on your list until you find him. If you dial the wrong one, I doubt anyone's going to bite your head off. Just try the other numbers until you find him. Explain to him that you were just nervous around him, that's why you reacted so harshly to what he said, then apologize. I guarantee you that you won't come off as stupid if you say that. It can go along the lines of:
Hi, is Peter there? Oh, hi Peter, this is Cornelia. About the other day, I wanted to apologize for being rude. I was rude because I'm so nervous around you. What I said isn't how I feel, so I'm sorry.
You know, or something like that. I'd hate to put words in your mouth, so you might want to change it around to something you would say. If it helps, write it down first before you call him. In any case, I suggest doing this soon. If you wait too long, it'll be even more awkward.
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