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I went on a blind date today and it didnt excactly turn out the way I wanted it to. Well for starters, I had agreed to meet him at a local coffee shop with the couple that set us up. He was late and when he did show up he didnt look too happy when he saw me for the first time. He didnt offer to buy me anything to drink or eat, and the whole time we ended up talking about his friends or his business. He didnt ask me any questions about me or my personal life or interests, which indicated that he wasnt too crazy about me. We all talked for about a half hour, and when the couple the introduced us had to leave, my date looked at his watch and said he had to go. He never offered me his number or asked for mine. He actually looked like he couldnt wait to get out of there. The other couple looked surprised and thought we would have stayed longer. My friend (the wife of the other couple) I think felt bad and invited me over to her place afterwards.
Is it just me, or was my blind date really rude? I don't understand what I did to make him act like this, the whole time I was polite and engaged him in conversation.
Any feedback will be appreciated. I rate high!
As far as I see it, your date was a selfish asshole. I mean, he didn't get you anything to eat or drink, showed no interest in you and talked the whole time about his friends and his business. Pfuit! I don't think you should even want his phone number. Why would you possibly want to talk to him if he doesn't like you and all he wants to talk about is his friends and his business? Don't feel bad. You did everything you should have; you had good manners and engaged him in conversation. You can't predict the minds of SOME jerks out there
(Rating: 5) thanks for your support. If it wasnt for advicenators I think I would be really depressed right now. I'm humiliated and hurt that the guy treated me like this. I mean I even got my hair done to prepare for this date. Once again, thankyou.