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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. I love him to death. I do everything with him and Hes probably my closest bf Ive had.

Latley though (meaning the last 2 months) Ive notice he's been worring NON stop. I mean I have to promise him everything. He'll ask me if i love him and I'll say of course! and he will ask ... are you sure? do you promise? He always has to re ask me over and over if im going to call him that night or make sure plans are to be w/ him and no one else. We have talked about this worrying thing before and He said he would work on it, but its not getting any better.

Soo guys ... why do you worry? Or is it just my boyfriend. I am one of those girls that can work out anything so breaking up w/ him isnt an option. Him knowing that I dont know why he worries soo much. It HAS TO STOP THOUGH. That makes me more frustrated then anything else about him.

Please get some reason that would explain this!
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Yes, it's a security issue and I don't find it cute at all. I used to be exactly like that and, in retrospect, I was as annoying as Hell.

As for the reasons, maybe he's been screwed over before. It's either based on past experiences with someone else or it's just that he's afraid things will change soon. Maybe his last girl had a tendency to blow him off and lied about how she felt about him. Maybe he's just afraid of that happening with you. Either way, I'm assuming he's relatively new to the dating scene? I would just continue to talk to him about it. Tell him how much it annoys you and tell him he knows you love him and that you will call.


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