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okay i know this might sound like a stupid question, but im not quite sure what it means what does it mean when a guy says he wants to fuck you really badly? is it fingering you or to have sex?
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I'd like to add something to what I've already written (below). The response you got from keevy333 was right. "Fucking" is not limited to heterosexuals which means then that it is not always heterosexual sex, i.e., penis in vagina. Contrary to what many believe, oral sex is definitely a form of sex. Gay men and women "fuck" also and in various ways. However, I figured you were a girl and responded to your question thinking about your particular case...and did not go into details about the other aspects of "fucking." And by the way, I keep putting that word in quotes because I really, really don't like this word used for the act of sex. No matter who is doing it, the word leading up to it - in this case "fuck" - is crude and rude as I say below.
This isn't a stupid question, but I'm curious as to how old you are. The reason is that a guy saying that to you is just not particularly appropriate...ESPECIALLY if you're young!! I think guys too often think it's really cool to say that word and that girls/women WANT to hear it. Uh, no. Sorry fellas, but MOST girls do not want to be talked to in that manner.
OK, to answer your question, "fuck" means to have intercourse. And it is usually a word used when the person saying it does not have any intention of putting any sort of love or commitment towards the act. It means pure sex in the crudest sense of the word.
I know you didn't ask, but please think long and hard about whether or not YOU want to have sex with this guy and whether or not you're feeling pressured. But also, do you want to have sex with a guy who's telling you that he wants to "fuck" you rather than saving that special (and fun) act/time for someone you really like/love and who will respect you by using words that aren't so crude?!
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