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If I were you, I would just not care what ANYONE thinks of you. Just show them that you like your boyfriend and nothing they say can change that. Once they see that their little comments don't offend you or get to you, they'll quit what they are doing and realize, "Hey! I'm only doing this to make her mad, and it's not working... there's no point..." and they'll stop! The onl reason why they even mess with you is because they think it's fun to mess with you... if you show them that what they are saying and talking amongst their little friends about are bothering you, that will do nothing but satisfy them, making what they say even funnier and fun to them.
Don't be so hard on yourself! :-)
You're not ugly... if you think you're ugly, you're not appreciating God because he made you that way and critisizing the way he made you isn't something you should do. You should feel good to be you... You should feel confident. I mean, hey, you've got the looks, you've got the brains, what more can you ask for? :-) I want you to know you don't have to feel bad about yourself just because a few people say a few things about you. Peopel tease me all the time... I ignore them and they shut up because it's no fun when the person you're insulting isn't hurt. It's sick the way people get their pleasure from other people's pain and trust me, I understand perfectly well! I just want you to know you are NOT ugly... no one is! People tease other people because they are ugly themselves and they tease other people to make them feel better. I know sometimes, some people feel ugly but it makes them feel better knowing there's someone uglier than them so they tease that person because they don't think that person'll come back with something that will make that person shut up. It's confusing, I know but you'll get it. Just go through high school without caring what anyone else thinks. I should take my own advice, since people tease me about my nose. I think it's big... some people say it's not but I don't listen. When I look in the mirror in the morning,I hate it... what I look like... But I have to go through the day anyways. When someone says something about my nose, I cry because it hurts, yes, but you have to control. I'm trying to prove to you that you are not alone because I go through the same thing as you EVERY single day! I have people say things about me and really try to ignore them. I understand that sometimes you just can't but just try. They are worse than you... you know why? Because they tease people better than them to make themselves feel better about themselves. You probably think I'm telling you this to make you feel better but it's true! I would love to hear about you again... please please please email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com or just rate me and in my feedback, give me an email where I can reach you... I would love you to ask me anything you want and to not be shy about what it is... I want you to feel open around me and feel free to say anything at all without feeling stupid or low. You can talk to me about anything anytime! I would love to hear about some more of your problems so maybe we can fix them! I'm really sorry that you're going through this but from what it seems, you're a strong person and you can make it through anything and anyone! Just set your mind to it and you'll be fine. Please email me to update me. I know you'll be fine! Bye, hun!
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
Luv Kayla
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