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Hey Advicenators! (;
I usually hate giving advice to questions like these, but I really need to know if what I'm doing is right. Basically, I have a boyfriend, and we've been dating for a month and a couple days. I really really like him a lot. He's been my best friend since I've moved here to Texas, and we just thought we should start being boyfriend / girlfriend. His name is Kevin.
Back in Pennsylvania, I had this best friend called Charles. We had been best friends since 2nd grade. But, we became REALLY close before I left PA because we knew that it'd be super heartbreaking for the both of us, since we wouldn't be together anymore.
I was completely sad because I knew that Charles didn't believe in long distance relationships. I knew I'd have to wait for him.
But then he found a girlfriend like a month after I left. I don't know her but I know that he has a girl. I was so pissed off about this because I thought he was "in love" with me. But obviously not. Then I met Kevin, like 2 months after I moved here.
Somehow he found out that I'm making Kevin a gift for Xmas, "100 reasons why I like you.." lol i'm pretty sure everyone knows about that. Then tonight, Charles IMed me and said, "Tell me 100 reasons why you love me.." & I'm like I'm not going to do that because it's unfair to Kevin, even if he never finds out about this conversation, I still think it's unfair to talk about US behind his back. He shouldn't even feel that way anyways because he has a girlfriend, right? Now he said he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. And he's never said that to me before.
I'm not going to be upset about this, because it isn't my fault, right? I just need other peoples' perspectives on this.
Thanks for any help.
NaImEE ♥ (link)
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It's not your fault. I think your friend Charles is jealous, I think the reason why he moved on is because he he realizes there's no -you guys- and he just can't have you. The reason why I think he's jealous is because he can't face the face that yall can't be together. I'd suggest if Charles is going to act that way towards you don't bother talking to him he'll come back when he's ready and make sure he apologizes if he does come back as well. But yeah stay with your boyfriend be happy with HIM no one else. Hope I helped..
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Yes! You did help, very much & Thank you for your response! Great advice!
NaImEE ♥
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