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im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had. (link)
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Alright let's not kill ourselves. He's just am immature 15 year old doesn't know what he wants yet. He wants to find more, experiment more, see more but honestly I don't think you should kill yourself over one guy he's one out of a million I know but maybe you should just leave it at that. Don't try to contact him, talk to him, see him nothing let him come back to you. Trust me he sounds like a guy that if you act like you don't want him he'll come back and if you really want him back like you say you do and act like you do then there but if he doesn't come back there's so much better out there your almost 18 2 more years til you find a real man 2 more years til your on your own and he'll be what 17 you'd have to wait a whole year to be with him anyways. Honestly he sounds confused if he doesn't believe you or trust you that you didn't talk trash about him that night then he's not worth your tears. Hope I helped. Sorry...
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