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Ok i am 16 female and i got to high school and my boyfriend (getting married) is like 20. Well the other day he seen me hugging my Step-Brother and he was like this that you boyfriend and what are you doing with him anyways. Well told him that it is my Step-Brother and he is going back home and i dont know when the next time i get to see him. But my Boyfriend just said bulls**t. And he is always with other girls. but he don't know thhat i know about it. But then i just said that if you are going to keep on saying that i am cheating we are though so he said fine then i said ok we are over. but i still love him. Was it wrong for me saying we are over or did i do the right thing?
You ABSOLUTELY did the right thing. No matter how sweet he may seem when you are together, and how you may love that side of him, his jealousy could possibly have turned into an extremely controlling and emotionally/physically abusive relationship. The fact that he wouldn't accept that the guy you hugged is your step-brother (and not to mention got jealous over a simple HUG) is classic preliminary behavior for someone who may turn extremely jealous and possessive. You can do SO much better, especially if he's such a hyprocrite that he's with other girls all the time. I know it can be difficult for you, but don't stress to much and try to do things for yourself or meet guys who will have a trusting and loving relationship with you.
Hope this helps!
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Nevaeh
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thanks a lot of the help
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