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hey im 13/f.

i really really liek really liek this kid hes 15.

so, i ONLY see him on fridays. and its civil air ptrol aux. of the united states air force. so its hard to try to compliment him on his clothes and stuff. its also hard to flirt casu e its only one day. please help with any tips you ahve.

what should i do?

ps-i have his cell number but never call casue i dont want to be liek the annoying little 13 year old. and i talk to him on aim someitmes.


please help?

So I'm assuming that you DO actually talk to him when you see him on Fridays, which is a good start. As long as you're talking to him in person & some on AIM, he knows that you exist and he could possibly like you too. I don't think there's any other way you could see him unless you asked him to go to the movies with you or something "just as friends" to hang out and get to know each other better. As for flirting with him on the one day you see him, I don't know what to say. You don't have to compliment him on his clothes.. say something nice about his hair or eyes, you know? Talk about things that you know he's interested in. Touch him on his arms or something sometimes. and when you're getting ready to leave, try to hug him. These things should let him know that you're definately interested in him. Also, you have his number. If HE gave you his number, then that means he wants you to call him so he obviously wouldn't think your an annoying little 13 year old. But, if you got his number another way, then he'd probably be wondering HOW exactly you got it, so just tell him it was a friend or something. Him knowing that you got his number from someone else will also let him know that you're interested in him. Call him one time and talk to him.. you'll know if he seems annoyed or if he's actually interested in talking to you. I hope this helps and good luck! Let me know what happens or if you have any more questions. ♥

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