My name is Rae. I live in Colonie. I go to CCHS asa freshman. I'm 14, my birthday is October 7th (( tomorrow from wen im writing this lol )). I help my friends out with advice ALL the time and i'm pretty good at it. I keep an open mind and make sure i give people as many options and opions that i have for them. I'll try to come on here everday, but if i dont i may have computer problems, charging my laptop, working on a website, or currently dealing with my own problems. I want to open up to you guys and relate your problems to mine. I may be young but i have gone through a lot in my life, as well as seen people i'm very close to go through the same problems you are. I'm actually really bad at solving my own problems... which is probably why i'm good at solving other peoples.
There are a lot of useless random info about me and i dont want to bore you anymore haha. but if ya wanna no more e-mail me, IM me, or jus ask a question lol. thanx
x333333 RaE aKa LiL sHoRtY
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Well ive been going out with my bf since June... But weve liked eachother SOOOOOO MUCH before that... I love him and all but i just get aggervated with the way he treats me sometimes. This all happened in July when we all went to a house party.. i got pretty trashed (14/f believe me i learned from my mistakes and theyll never happen again!!) and i ended up making out with this guy.. I didnt even notice i did it until the next morning when i woke up at my house (i had gotten a ride home from my friends bro')... Well anyway so i felt like such a horrible person i even called my boyfriend up and told him what i did... He of course reacted as any man would.. flipping out on me and sh** he even called me a fucking slut and whore... :( :( :( :(.... yeah I know harse... BUT we talked it over like 2 weeks after that and he finally forgave me.. I was so Happy... and see the thing is though whenever the boy who i madeout with comes up (even now and its october) my BF gets all pissed off and doesnt talk to me! or he'll be in a bitchy mood all day and when we hangout he wont kiss me or whatever... errr and its continually.. But then the next day hes all fine and everything. I know he doesnt trust me still.. and it sucks.. ANY IDEAS?? Im tired of this.. I HATE IT SO MUCH!! it makes me feel so low of myself and i cry whenever it happens.. What can i do to stop him from doing this??.. and for me to forgive myself? and how can i let him know he can trust me and that i do love him and it was just a mistake! (link)
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You can't make him trust you. But you can show him you dont like this guy at all. Try not to bring it up. If someone else brings him up roll your eyes and act like you hate talking about him. What you did was wrong, and you admit that which is good. I'm 14 and i've done some stupid stuff too. Admiting it is definitely the best. Talk to him again. Let him know that you love him and not that guy, that when he gets mad at you over it it makes you cry. If he really loves you he'd hate the fact that you were crying because of the way he was treating you. You need to tell him that you understand why he cant trst you but that you dont have any intention of ever doing it again. Guys are really insecure too they just try not to show it. So for him to know that HIS girl was macking with some other guy makes him feel like as a "man" he's missing something. He needs to be complimented just like you do, but in a different way. i know it sounds funny but it works. Let him know hes your and your his and no one elses lol. hope i helped ya even a bit
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WOw what you just said about the whole boy thing about them feeling they are missing something is SO TRUE! I never noticed it till now.. THANK-YOU SO MUCH!! you helped!!
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