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I'm an 29 year old guy.I'll always do my best to give well considered and sincere advice - give me your best shot. P.S. Don't be afraid to ask me private questions, I rarely spend a lot of time answering non-private questions.
o.o There is apparently a FORUM for me if you would like to talk about random non-advice stuff. Take off your shoes!
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im 14 and going into the 10th grade and ive never kissed a guy. and all my friends all have lost it. and i feel like im being left behind. and when my friends talk bout it they ask me hats the most uve done w/ a guy and i cant say anything cuz i havent even kissed 1! what should i do?
First of all, I'm 17, and I haven't "lost it" OR kissed anyone yet. There's nothing Wrong with you, it just means you haven't met someone you've liked well enough to have a relationship with, or maybe just haven't gotten around to kidding. there a heaps of 14 year olds who are the same as you. I don't want to sound rude (but I'm obviously going to anyway, so don't take it too bad ^.-) but your friends sound sort of slutty. What's their point? So fëcking what, you haven't lost your virginity... is it "cool" to lose your virginity? I think it's STUPID to lose your virginity to peer pressure!
Maybe if you really do think you're being left behind by your friends then it's for the better. If they're so far ahead of you then there's sure to be some people right alongside you, and they're probably the people you want to know better. The ones who don't care that you're still a virgin, who don't even ask about it.
Just as a parting thought; you've got to live sometimes. There has to be a first time for everything you want to do in your life. But you also have so much time in which to do things. There's a balance between "seize the day", because you could die in a car accident, and "take it slow", because everybody knows that people make stupid mistakes they regret. You just have to decide when you're ready - don't let other people tell you.
-K
(Rating: 5) thx alot! really you made me realize that there are other people out there just like me! now i dont feel as alone as i did. your a true friend!
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