Oh my gosh!

Awww~~~

I'm really sorry!

You need to stop cutting yourself, though. There are major veins in your body that can burst while you're cutting yourself and you can die from it! Never say you want to die. Life is too short for anyone to be killing themselves. I'm your age, 13, and I know how it feels to think no one cares about you but there are people who do. You may not think there are, but there are!

You need to talk to an aunt, uncle, older sibling, ANYONE who you can talk to and maybe even stay with to be away from everyone. Your life is not falling apart. It might seems like it but there are ways to fix it. Change everything you're doing. Talk to your mom and dad. Tell them how you feel about them doing this to you. They should ship you off to another country because that's depressing you even more and you SERIOUSLY do not need that in your life!

You have to tell them whatever you feel like telling them. You have WAY too much bottled up anger inside you and that is not a good thing. You have to let it out! Scream, kick, throw things, cry, yell, just LET IT OUT! It'll help you get out your feelings and it'll make you feel better. Don't HURT someone but let it out by yelling and crying and who cares if you act like a 2 year old? You have the RIGHT to after all the shit that's been going on in your life.

People who bottle up anger inside them are usually killers, rapists, and drug users and you don't want to become that. You have to let your anger out, this once. This once, let something trigger you to where you let this anger out. It's not good. Let your feelings out. Sometimes, being calm doesn't help you. Sometimes, screaming and yelling does!

I'm always going to be on your side. I may not know you but this is the most interesting question I've answered all day and for all the months that I have been into Advicenators. It's good that you look to us for help! That's a DEFINITE plus!

You need to stop cutting yourself. Some people do it because they THINK it's the only pain they can control but it's not. You control your own life and you have to change it, become tougher. Don't become addicted to pills. It can damage your health badly and you may ruin your entire life. It may seem like it's already ruined but there is still someone out there who can change it. Trust me... 5 more years to go... then, you can get the hell out of there, go wherever the hell you want, and DO whatever the hell you want to. Enjoy being a kid. I'm sure you have friends who will stay by your side and if not, I'm by your side at all times. Email me ANYTIME you want to just talk or need to ask a question. My email address is x_pink_x109@yahoo.com and I check it everyday.

I want you to know Advicenators cares for you and we want you to be happy, not depressed. Try to stop cutting yourself. I want to change your life by telling you to STOP CUTTING YOURSELF AND STOP DOING PILLS. They will ruin your life and make you want more and more until you die. You do not want to die from over dose on pills and you do NOT want die from slit wrists/neck/legs or whatever you cut. Don't kill yourself because of the pain in your life. Try yo change it instead. I want you alive, not dead. You seem like a really nice girl. I'm your age and yes, I have gone through some hard times (NOTHING like this, might I add) and there, honestly, have been times where I just wanted to die. Either from embarassment or because I was grounded for a year and didn't see the world until my next birthday!

Do NOT worry! You need to shake this off and get on with this life that you are living! You may not WANT to live it but you have to. You were put on this earth to do something and you have to live, at leats until you find out what it is. Maybe you could do something that would change the world of tomorrow. You need to think positive instead of thinking about all the crap in the past. Think of happy times you may have had with a best friend. I know it may be hard. You're a fighter, I can tell by your question. Fighters ALWAYS win. They always figh through whatever hardship they're going through and they FIGHT! You can do this! You may not WANT to but I want you to and I KNOW you can.

This is a SERIOUSLY long answer, the longest answer I've ever given, but I'm serious. You can do this, you NEED to do this. It's not for your mom or dad or whoever else, it's for you. It's for your own good. And if I were you and MY parents wanted to ship ME off to another country, I wouldn't care WHAT they said. I would go anyways.

If this gets TOO serious to where you can't SEROUSLY handle it, you should get the cops involved. They can do something like make you stay with one of your closest relatives for however long. That can help too.

I want you to know that I'm always here for you if you need ANYTHING in the world. If I could, I would give a million dollars so you could live your own life but unfortunately I don't have that kind of money. :-)

Please listen to what I have to say and I hope you took the time to read what I had to say! I had to say a lot but still...
you should still know everything I have to say like I'm always here for you when you need it.

I want you to know that, I NEED you to know that. Email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com The only reason why I put it again so you would see it twice andbe reminded that we care about you.I mean this whole website cares, no matter who they are, unless they SERIOUSLY have no heart and they have mental issues. I CARE ABOUT YOU and I don't want you going down! I want you to succeed in life and do whatever you're supposed to while you're on this earth. Just be yourself, and know that people care!

Best of luck!

Hope I helped!

♥ Kayla

TRIPLE LOVE~!~!~! ♥♥&hearts

I'm REALLY sorry! Email me if you like... you have my email!

thanx, and sorry i can't say more, causeit's really late and i'm really tired, but i will e-mail you VERY soon

I'm Kayla.
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