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ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ). (link)
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Personally, I'd tell him everything why you pulled away and why you thought it was bad that you did. Don't say sorry I understand where you are coming from. Like you probably felt weird because he was just doing it because of his friends, and you would have probably liked it more and wouldn't have thought it felt weird if he would have just done it on his own on his own time and whenever he felt comfortable enough. Say sorry if I hurt you (yeah I know I told you not to say sorry but yeah say this..) Sorry if I hurt you when I pulled away I want to be able to kiss you and I want you to be able to kiss me whenever you feel comfortable, and that you just didn't appreciate him listening to his/your friends other than your heart. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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thanks..you have no idea how helpful that was.
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