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Q: Well there is this kid we met this year and we went out together at one point but then we broke up and we were still friends. But now he hates me and won't talk to me and I have no idea why. What should I do I'll rate high! I'm female/13
I think you should confront him face to face. Tell him what's on your mind. Ask him why he is acting the way that he is acting.

Tell him that you want to be his friend but if he is just finding reasons to gight with you, you guys HAVE to talk about this. Tell him that you want him to be your friend and as a friend, you're asking him to tell you what is bothering him.

At times, kids your age go through some things that devastate them. Like parents divorcing, relative/family member passing away, or fights with their parents or siblings. These things can possibly cause them to take their anger out on people that they aren't even angry AT! This COULD be a possibility.

Most of the time, kids are going through a lot at your age and need someone to be there for them. That's where YOU come in. Ask him what's bothering him. Ask him if it's you that's bothering him. If it is, ask him what you did wrong to make him so angry.

This should get you through to him.

You know you can email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com if you need any help with advice or JUST want to talk! You can also drop one in my inbox!

Best of luck!

Hope I helped!

♥ Kayla ♥

thanxs for the advice =)

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