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Ask me about: Social Situations, Relationships, Depression, Suicide, Health, How to Deal with Loss, School, Random weird things that don't fit into any of the above ;) I think I'm pretty good at giving advice, just ask and I'll give it my best shot. I've experienced a lot of it, and I don't mind doing a little research if I haven't. I love playing piano, clarinet, in general I just love music, and I love to write and read, poetry especially, and I love mathematics, physics, and oceanography. I've been told I'm mature for my age, but I don't know, I just think that a person has to be who they are, true to themselves, and not worry about what fits into an age group. I love simply living as best as I can, working when I have to, and having fun. It's all in your perspective. Just a quote that I like "Dreams are made and broken, potentials realized and never reached, all on the breath of one phrase: It could be."
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E-mail: Nevaeh314@gmail.com
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ok there is this guy and we went out befor but he cheeted on me and broke my heart but now he is saying he is sorry and that he still has feelings for me and i dont kno what to do cuz i also still like him but i dont want to get hurt......and i am also a cutter and last time we went out i cut alot cuz of what i was hearing about him and stuff...... but i think he has changed and he tells me how soory he was and that he owes me for what he put me though....what should i do? should i trust him again> or should we just be friends?
Just be friends until you can figure yourself out more. If you cut yourself, that should be your number one priority to change or get help for. Identify the source of your depression, and get help to move past it. Only when you truly love yourself and who you are can you give that love away to another person.
Just take a look in the mirror and see what you've come to be, and how incredible a person you are. However much pain you have in your life, cutting won't solve it or take it away. You have to find healthy ways of dealing with depression, such as focusing more on your interests, like playing a sport, instrument, or reading. Talk to a family member you trust, like a sibling or an aunt, to help you get through a time like this.
Once you decide to turn your life around and change your perspective to catch more of the good rather than the bad, you'll be able to see if this boy has really changed or if he's just playing you, and you'll be able to forgive him if he's sincere. Hope things start looking up!
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Nevaeh
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*sniffle* this is he best advice i have ever had! thatnk you sooo much!
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